September 2024,
Women remain at the mercy of others, trying to keep them down. We have proved ourselves very capable of finding our self-worth and having the ability to make our own choices socially, economically, politically, and psychologically, yet we still have along way to go. We only need to be ourselves; confident in who we are. Most women find strength in each other and are always willing to help each other succeed. We have worked so hard for gender equality and non-discrimination, and have seen many successes in our right to control own minds and bodies. We must continue to have a positive attitude and surround ourselves with people who positively support us. We need to tell ourselves that we are strong and capable; we won’t have self-doubt if we do that.
We must be assertive, while we treat people fairly. Being a part of a team, we remain safe, fulfilled, and productive.
We must teach our daughters to empower themselves through education and be sure to show them that they are valuable and worthy. As parents, we cannot be critical or degrade them. They need to learn self-value to make a difference. Teach them not to be jealous, but to aspire to be their best selves without comparison to their peers, because they are the future leaders that we are building today. Empowering women should be an obligation for us all, to create a better society.
The historical past of women who were taught to look down has changed. We have grown up standing tall and feeling capable.
Imagine an end to domestic violence, and emotional abuse, learn how to say no, change inheritance and property rights, and teach our sons to respect women as equals, Our sons should be just as capable of doing all activities of daily living for themselves. Household chores are gender-neutral, we all need to care for ourselves. Parents are not supposed to raise children, they are supposed to raise ADULTS.
Sons and daughters can be taught the same things, so they can manage their own lives independently, especially in the
current world where marriage rates are dropping. Managing one’s self in life is an individual responsibility. Women enable people they love to have expectations of their extra care. If all children are taught that receiving love and care is a privilege from a young age, we will see more gender equality in the future. Empower yourselves to use your intelligence over or along with your feelings, and see the power of your strength and endurance.
Marriage is beautiful and sacred, but it comes with its fair share of challenges and responsibilities. One of these
responsibilities is to protect oneself and one’s assets in case of a potential divorce. This is where a pre-nuptial agreement comes into play. It may not be the most romantic gesture, but it can provide a sense of security and clarity for both parties involved, address issues such as spousal support and inheritances, and reveal important information about your partner’s values and priorities. A pre-nuptial agreement can also be seen as a form of insurance for the marriage. Just like one would purchase insurance to protect their home or car, a pre-nuptial agreement protects the marriage. It can outline how assets and debts will be divided. This can help prevent future conflicts and ensure a smoother resolution in case of a separation. However, it’s important to approach pre-nuptial agreements with caution and sensitivity. They should not be seen as a lack of trust or commitment in a relationship but rather as practical and responsible.
It’s crucial to seek legal counsel to ensure that the agreement is fair and legally binding for both parties. Ultimately, a pre-nuptial agreement can provide a sense of peace of mind for both partners, allowing them to focus on building a strong and healthy marriage. My personal advice to anyone, Male or Female, and anyone considering marriage is to seriously consider signing a pre-nuptial agreement. If your partner is hesitant or even outright refuses to sign one, it may be a sign that they have something to hide or are not fully committed to the marriage. It’s important to have open and honest conversations about finances and expectations before marriage. Pre-nuptial agreements are worth far more than you think, if they are rejected, there might be a very good reason for someone denying them, and you need to question why they fear signing and what they are afraid of. Listen to their answer carefully and understand the reason and intent. If I knew more or knew better, I would not have lost so much to the man whose main intent was to take it from me.
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Lauraina Bashir